I like to torque the swing-arm/motor mount bolt first, then the lowest motor mount and then move my way up to the upper mount, or head stay.
I believe this is the most critical mount of all and is probably under more stress than any other besides the swing-arm pivot.
This particular mount should be shimmed and not just reefed into place.
On this engine & frame example there was almost a .040” gap on the right hand side of head after the upper upper bolts were torqued to the frame.
Using the nearest flat washer to the size I needed, a grinder and a magnetic holder I managed to make the appropriate shim without losing too much skin from my finger tips.
Southern engineering to the rescue!