I've built lots of different engines over the years and I still get that SAME feeling EVERY dang time.
BUT, I figure; Better to be made fun of by the cool kids than crater an engine.
I turn the engine the proper direction and watch the intake valve. SOON as it closes bring the T mark up and stop. If the O on the cam sprocket and the mark on the valve cover line up, you're good. Seat the pulse rotor assembly all the way in, making sure the dowel is in the slot. Set the rotor gap and I like to set the pick up coil by rotating it back and forth to determine dead center. You can adjust with a light later. Set the valve lash. Get it started.
There's no shame in quadruple checking everything before you start it. I will gauran-damn-tee you any race engine builder worth his salt builds an engine like Santa Claus.......Makin' a list...checkin' it twice.
Reading the manual, taking notes and making a check list to mark off as you go is NOT a dumb idea.
Something else I do, leave the plug out and crank the engine several times first. Easy and feel for something that ain't right...then faster and faster. This is exponentially easier on an electric start. Helps prime the oil pump and get some oil in the places it needs to be.
I was so paranoid on this last 200ES motor I did ( I had a LOT of time and money in it...not just a fresh top end) I actually poured about 1/2 a cup of fresh oil in through the valve cover plug so there'd be oil up there the instant it fired. That's on top of copious amounts of assembly lube.
Good luck! Hope that helps...it probably didn't. LOL!!!
I was born and raised on Venus & I may be here a while.....